| Stress.
Anxiety. Guilt. Pain. Sadness. Trauma. These feelings
and emotions are all part of our human existence. At
times, however, one or more of these can become negative
emotions and can block our ability to live life fully.
We may find ourselves repeating patterns in relationships,
with career choices, or with physical ailments, feeling
stuck in situations that appear to be beyond our control.
We now have a simple but powerful tool that can help
us regain our sense of choice over our negative emotions
and recover our personal power. Emotional Freedom Techniques
(EFT for short) allows easy release of negative emotions
and turns the stuck energy into empowerment so we can
freely choose what is best in our lives. After the release
of the negative emotions we can be free to experience
more of life's joy and happiness.
What is EFT?
EFT, Emotional Freedom Techniques, is an easy yet
effective method developed by Gary Craig that allows
quick release of negative emotions. EFT involves tapping
on certain meridian points that communicate energetic
information throughout the human body while focused
on the emotion we want to release.
Try EFT Now!
Take a few minutes to learn the fundamental steps
of this powerful self-help tool. This is the short version
of EFT but you can access the full version, and many
useful and effective energy tools and techniques, at
our Web Site www.TapIntoHeaven.com
or www.selibre.net
- Recall an experience when something happened that
you felt was out of your control. What are your feelings
as you think about that situation or the people involved?
Name the feeling or emotional response that you have
right now. If you cannot name the specific feeling,
just call it "This emotion."
- Rate the intensity of the emotional response on
a scale from zero to ten, with ten being the most
intense and zero being no emotional response at all.
- Perform The Setup: With the finger pads of the
index and middle fingers of your dominant hand, begin
tapping lightly the "Karate Chop" point
of your other hand. The fleshy part on the side of
the hand below the little finger is known as the Karate
Chop point. While continuously tapping this point,
repeat the following Setup Statement three times:
"Even though I have this emotion, I deeply and
completely accept myself" If you can name the
emotion, then replace the word "emotion"
with the specific feeling such as "anger,"
"guilt," or "sadness." Physical
pain or discomfort can also be treated with EFT. Simply
replace the word "emotion" with a description
of the problem such as "headache," "
lower back pain," or "arthritis in my knee."
For example, to treat my stress I repeat, "Even
though I have this stress, I deeply and completely
accept myself," three times while continuously
tapping the Karate Chop point.
- Next, perform the Tapping Sequence by tapping about
five times on each point (see chart) to rebalance
your energy flow. Keep focused on the emotion or problem
by repeating a Reminder Phrase similar to the Setup
Statement. To release stress, I repeat, "This
stress" while tapping lightly about five times
on each of the following points:
EB = Beginning of the Eye Brow
SE = Side of the Eye
UE = Under the Eye
UN = Under the Nose
CH = The Chin
CB = Beginning of the CollarBone
UA = Under the Arm
KC = Karate Chop Point
Points on either side of the body can be used, and
sides can be switched during the tapping sequence.
- Take a deep breath. Now focus on the emotion you
were addressing. Rate the intensity of that feeling
on the 0-10 scale. If you were feeling stress on a
level of 5 or 6, is it still at that same level?
Complete Relief
If the feeling you had is completely relieved, and
you feel no emotional response at all when you recall
the experience from Step #1, great! You responded well
to one round of EFT! You experienced, in a few moments,
the power of this technique.
Partial Relief
Often, however, there is a reduction in the level
of intensity of the emotion, say from a 5 or 6 to a
2 or 3. The remainder of the emotion needs to be treated
with another round or two of EFT. In the subsequent
rounds, it is important to adjust the Setup Statement
and the Reminder Phrase to address the rest of the emotion
or feeling. Use wording similar to, "Even though
I still have some of this emotion, I deeply and completely
accept myself," and repeat it three times while
tapping the Karate Chop point. Then repeat, "This
remaining stress," or "This remaining problem"
during the Tapping Sequence. Do as many rounds of EFT
as necessary until your emotional response is zero when
you focus on the original experience from Step #1.
No Relief
If the first round of EFT did not lower the intensity
of the feeling, try becoming more specific with the
Setup Statement. For example, when dealing with stress
you may need to define who or what is causing my stress
to unblock the stuck energy. You could then repeat something
similar to "Even though I have this stress about
having to finish this article by today, I deeply and
completely accept myself" during the Setup. Then
you could use "this deadline stress" as a
Reminder Phrase during the Tapping Sequence. Along with
being more specific, persistence is sometimes necessary
with this technique to reach a breakthrough. Try a few
more rounds of EFT and see if the intensity of the problem
or emotion eases somewhat.
This simple, or "shortcut," version of EFT
is around 60 % effective and often results is some sort
of relief for a specific problem. Coached by a skilled
practitioner, who will know how to deal with special
blocks that sometimes stand in the way of success, EFT
has been clinically shown to be 80% effective.
How Will You Use EFT in Your Life?
Now that you have the basics of a powerful tool, try
it on any negative or uncomfortable emotion you encounter
and to help you gain control over many areas in your
life. Try it on everything! EFT has no negative side
effects, and the procedure only takes a few minutes
to complete. Tap into your personal power with the self-help
tool of the new millennium!
Gwenn Bonnell is a writer, teacher, lecturer, and Energy
Psychology practitioner, at Heaven on Earth in West
Broward, Florida. A member of the Association for Comprehensive
Energy Psychology (ACEP), Gwenn also facilitates EFT
and Energy Psychology training and workshops. For more
information call 954-370-1552, email gwenn@tapintoheaven.com,
or visit www.tapintoheaven.com.
Joachim Schubert teaches and practices EFT in Spanish
and English in the Miami area. A member of the Association
for Comprehensive Energy Psychology (ACEP), Joachim
also facilitates training and workshops. For more information
call 305-531-8129 or email contact@selibre.net
Visit our Web Site: www.tapintoheaven.com/
and www.selibre.net
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